If you desire a better relationship with your husband, then take the time to reflect and focus some attention on him. Make a list of things you love and appreciate about him and put it in a place you will see it. Take the time to create an environment of peace for him to come home to so he will feel refreshed. Men need to feel respected, while women need to feel loved. As a wife, you can have a positive impact on his attitude by choosing to respect him and focus on what you love about him.